January 31, 2012 - Posted by FeedsBlogger - Comments Off
Written by Michael Webb
Want to give your man a thrilling experience like never before? Here are 5 really simple ways to make your lovemaking hotter, steamier and more passionate, starting tonight!
1. THE BEST POSITION FOR HIS ENJOYMENT
Practically every animal species utilizes the rear-entry “doggy-style” position, so it is a natural one for humans to enjoy, as well. While you won’t have face-to-face contact, there are many benefits. It’s great for guys because it gives them full control. This is one of the best positionsfor hitting her G-spot and allows him to fondle your breasts, stomach, clitoris, back, neck and other sensual spots. The main benefit for your man
is that he’ll be able to get incredibly deep penetration (above-average guys need to be careful as deep thrusts might hit her cervix, which can be quite painful).
2. FIND YOUR MAN’S “HIDDEN ZONES”
Yes, men love to be touched sensually too. I call these “hidden” zones because many people don’t realize, or forget, that these areas of the body LOVE attention. While many of these zones are obvious, like the lips, groin, and inner thighs, there are also areas that, when stroked, caressed and kissed, can drive your partner wild and even intensify their orgasm. Believe it or not, the ears, neck, arms, chest and scalp are all really sensitive areas that love to be stimulated. Spend some time during foreplay caressing and touching these areas, and watch how it pleases your partner.
3. SET A ROMANTIC MOOD
Think men aren’t romantic or wouldn’t appreciate it? Think again! Everyone loves a thoughtful and kind gesture. Of course you might think that using candles, music, incense and even rose petals to set the mood of your lovemaking is a little too “cliché.” But he’ll think differently! Your partner will LOVE YOU for this. Just imagine how happy you would feel if someone went to all the trouble to create a special lovemaking occasion that you can cherish for years to come. Could this be so “cliché” because people enjoy it so much? Point
made.
4. STRIP FOR HIM
Don’t forget that men are HIGHLY visual. They want to see your (imperfect) body. It might be surprising to you that they are most likely going to be more turned on by you being barely clothed than completely naked. Put on some sexy music (however you define it) and let your man enjoy you either slowly peeling off your clothes or make an entrance with your sexy lingerie. Visually tease him with sights of your cleavage and peeks of your other special places. It will drive him wild.
5. PLEASE YOUR MAN WITH A HAND JOB
If I had to give you one piece of advice to make your lovemaking perfect, it would be: learn the art of a the hand job. It’s true, all men love it. It feels great and it is visually exciting for men to see your smooth and sexy hands playing with his “best friend”.
Learn the tips to tease, tantalize and blow the socks off your man with an amazing hand job and he will be so
sexually addicted to you he will do ANYTHING to keep you by his side.
So there you have it. Five great ways to make your man more satisfied in the bedroom. While they’re
all great, I would recommend putting most of your energy and time into learning to give amazing hand jobs,
simply because men crave it so much and the loving smile and kisses you’ll probably get in return are definitely worth it.
About the author:
Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is founder of Stroke by Stroke: the complete guide to amazing hand jobs.
January 11, 2012 - Posted by FeedsBlogger - Comments Off
By Lloyd Lester, Creator, EjaculationByCommand
Have you been looking for sex positions that will help you fix premature ejaculation and last longer in bed? Well, your search ends here, to use an often-used cliche! There are sex positions that will not only maximize her sexual pleasure, but will also add minutes to your sex without any additional effort! Interested to learn more? I thought so too! Keep reading…
The Best Positions to Last Longer In Bed
Position #1 – “The Surreptitious Female Rider”
This is perhaps the best position for you if you are looking to last longer. Let her mount atop you while having sex. There are 2 advantages to this position:
Greater Control: You can control your arousal completely. This is because this position allows your body to be completely relaxed and stress-free. You are lying on your back and just enjoying the sensations coursing through your body. When you are this relaxed, you can control your arousal whenever you want.
Putting Her In Charge: The best advantage to this position is that she is in charge of the stimulation. Her rhythmic movements might inflame you, but you are in total control of your arousal and you can relax or tighten your pelvic muscles with total ease. How great is that?
Position #2 – “The Reversing Female Rider”
This is another great position you can try out. This is the reverse of Position #1. This is where your partner mounts you, but in a ‘facing away’ position. You can try this variation after adopting the traditional female rider. It can help vary the stimulation, without losing the fun and pleasure of the act.
So the next time you want to beat premature ejaculation and last longer, without spoiling the fun of the act or making it obvious, try these 2 positions. Vary between the two after a while during lovemaking. This is the best way to enjoy the pleasures that these different positions offer, while maintaining your arousal and erection for a longer time.
How Does A Position Change Help Me Last Longer?
It helps you in 2 ways:
1. Appearing More Dominant: Women like guys to take charge in bed. So, when you change positions every now and then, you are actually increasing your attraction in bed!
2. No Obvious Changes: When you are in the middle of an enjoyable sexual encounter, you don’t want to do something to distract or annoy her! Subtly changing positions is the best way to manage your arousal, while not appearing too obvious about it. You can use a number of sex positions to both vary your pleasure and to last longer in bed. Try the two variations above and get more out of that love encounter!
About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
January 11, 2012 - Posted by FeedsBlogger - Comments Off
What exactly is premature ejaculation? Well, it depends on who you ask. But the common consensus is that if you regularly come to a climax too early during sex without fulfilling your partner, you may be one of many men who are suffering from premature ejaculation (PE). As many as one in three men are believed to be afflicted with this sexual dysfunction. Actual figures may actually be higher as this is an embarrassing ailment that not many guys are willing to openly discuss.
What are the symptoms of premature ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation can be categorized by lifelong (primary) or acquired (secondary). The former can be characterized by early ejaculation within one minute following intercourse. This is often accompanied by a severe lack of confidence in bed and in worst cases, an avoidance of sex altogether. On the other hand, secondary PE is often marked by persistent ejaculation before both you and your partner wish that it happens. Guys who are experiencing secondary PE usually have enjoyed fulfilling sexual relationships in the past.
Are you at risk?
There are some men who are at higher risks of developing premature ejaculation. These include guys who are suffering from some form of erectile dysfunction. Men who have problems with erection often subconsciously hurry through sexual intercourse for fear of losing their erections. One of the biggest contributors to early ejaculation is stress or emotional strain. So men who are often emotionally stressed out are at a higher risk of ejaculating early during sex. This is nature’s way of releasing tension that has been pent up.
Do you need to seek medical attention?
If your lack of sexual endurance is causing great distress to you and your partner, it is recommended that you seek medical assistance. The doctor would be able to advice on the appropriate treatment to help you cope with the problem. In some cases, the doctor will even suggest that you are not even experiencing early ejaculation, especially if it occurs only occasionally. Likewise, if you can satisfy your partner even if you do not last more than 2 to 4 minutes during intercourse, there is no real cause for concern.
Coping with premature ejaculation
There are many forms of treatments, and what you choose to use will depend on the severity of your condition. These options include natural sexual therapy and conditioning, such as the squeeze technique to re-wire your ejaculatory triggers; medications that include the use of anti-depressants or topical anesthetic creams or sprays.
The bottom line is, premature ejaculation is very common and is a treatable condition. By understanding why you are ejaculating prematurely, you can use the appropriate solutions to permanently end your ejaculation problems and achieve the coveted ability to enjoy long-lasting sex!
About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
January 11, 2012 - Posted by FeedsBlogger - Comments Off
Am I ejaculating too fast during sex? Do women find my lack of sexual stamina laughable? Am I really pleasing my girl in bed each time I have sex? Do these sound like questions you have been asking yourself lately? If they do, don’t be ashamed about it. In fact, as many as forty percent of men have some issues about not lasting long enough in bed. So you are definitely not alone in finishing too soon during sex. Some guys have it so bad that they ejaculate the moment they penetrate their partners.
If you are like many men who wish they could last longer, you probably have many questions about premature ejaculation. If so, this article is just for you. Keep reading as we find answers to three common questions asked.
How long does the average man last in bed?
Five to ten minutes is a common yardstick, although most men are closer to five minutes. Considering the fact that most women take an average of fifteen minutes to reach an orgasm through vaginal penetration, it only means that the vast majority of women are unable to experience the full pleasures of lovemaking.
Is lasting longer always better?
Most men think so. BUT here’s the simple truth. You only need to last as long as it takes for her to get an orgasm. And it does not even need to be through vaginal penetration! You see, women are capable of reaching a climax through a variety of means. Foreplay, oral sex, and yes – even, mental seduction is known to cause an orgasm in a woman! As long as she receives her orgasm, the amount of time you spend penetrating her does not really matter. Hint: Take your time during foreplay and bring her to a climax before intercourse. Even if you do not last 30 seconds into intercourse, you are way better than 99% of all men!
I want to impress a hot date in bed at short notice… what can I do?
There is a quick and easy way to sort this out. Masturbate about an hour or two before you are due to have sex. By “clearing up your pipes” and releasing your sexual tension, your penis will become less responsive and it takes longer to stimulate it to the same levels of excitement. This stop-gap measure can easily add crucial minutes when you have sex. And she wouldn’t know a thing about it, either!
About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
January 11, 2012 - Posted by FeedsBlogger - Comments Off
The problem of premature ejaculation is not something out of this world. It happens to almost 40% of men at some stage of their lives. The only problem is that it tends to last long and has a negative impact on your personal life. Are you sure you are doing everything to prevent this from happening? We are not talking about reading up countless books! Take a look at the checklist below and make sure you are not bringing these upon yourself.
What Are The 3 Things You Should Avoid?
#1 – The Effects of Stress
Stress is your worst enemy, as far as your premature ejaculation goes. Whether it is related to your job or your performance in bed, stress can wreck havoc on your body. It leads to an increase in your blood pressure, a surge of adrenaline and a peaking of your sexual pleasure before you have had a chance to enjoy it fully. So what do you do about it?
Try to make a conscious effort to relax whenever you feel yourself go tense and stressed out. Take deep, thoughtful breaths and watch that tension ebb away.
#2 – Getting Mad
Believe it or not, being angry during sex can cause you to lose ejaculatory control in just a few moments. This happens in 2 ways. First of all, anger releases a surge of negative feelings within you. More importantly, it cuts out the communication that is so vital when you are making love. Think about it. You are not looking into her eyes – they are glowering at you in all probability, and that is NEVER good for your arousal control. What’s more, the surge of blood will make you lose control of your ejaculation reflexes very quickly, sometimes within seconds!
#3 – Wrong Masturbation Techniques
Strange as it sounds, the right masturbation technique can help you last longer. But a wrong way of self-stimulation can cause more harm than good. What are we talking about? If you have been used to a quick fix when you are pleasing yourself, it will be reflected in bed. The logic is simple. Your body becomes accustomed to a quick orgasm (and a weak one) when you masturbate quickly. The other problem is when you masturbate too frequently. If you are getting off by yourself three times a day, and getting off fast, you are spoiling your chances when the real thing hits in bed, so beware!
About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy trans-formative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
January 11, 2012 - Posted by FeedsBlogger - 1 Comment
Achieving a permanent fix to your premature ejaculation problem (PE) is the most important thing that any guy can do. Although there are plenty of products on the market that claim to treat PE and help you last longer in bed – such as desensitizing sprays, creams, pills and “climax control” condoms – these really are short-term fixes. To permanently cure your rapid ejaculation woes, addressing the underlying causes of PE is key. So how do you permanently prevent yourself from ejaculating too early during sex? The answer lies in a natural, time-tested 4-step strategy. Let’s find out below!
Step #1 – Determine the underlying factors of YOUR premature ejaculation
There are several causes for PE, and these affect every guy differently. Among these are stress and anxiety (including ‘performance anxiety’), as well as bad masturbation habits that were picked up from teenage years. Some guys are also unable to control their ejaculation due to problems relating to erectile dysfunction – they rush through sex due to fear of being unable to maintain their erections.
Step #2 – Determine how long you want to last
This is key. Without setting a target of how long you want to last, it is difficult, almost impossible, to eradicate your premature ejaculation because you have no specific end goal in sight. Incrementally increase your target once you reach each milestone. But be realistic. If you are unable to last more than 30 seconds now (seriously, some guys have it this bad!), setting a target of reaching 20 minutes of ‘staying power’ within a week is a surefire way to set yourself up for failure and disappointment.
Step #3 – Maintain a positive attitude and outlook
Like all things that are worth doing, you have to be upbeat about what you are going to achieve. You have to believe you CAN totally and permanently cure your premature ejaculation problem, just like many guys before you who believe they can. Maintain a positive image of what you can do with that extra sexual endurance, and how much more enjoyment you can give to your female partner (and yourself too!).
Step #4 – Stay the course until you achieve your desired outcome!
Learn the proper techniques to improve your time to ejaculation. There are many natural conditioning and training methods, such as arousal control, breathing control, pelvic floor exercises and the correct masturbation techniques that will help increase your sexual stamina. The key is to take consistent action. Your body needs time to adjust to the training and conditioning. By focusing on what you need to do and staying the course, you will dramatically improve how long you will last in bed. Remember, practice makes perfect. Every single time.
About the author:
Lloyd Lester is the creator of “Ejaculation By Command“, a complete, step-by-step blueprint to help men permanently end premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. Learn how you can develop superior sexual endurance and enjoy transformative sex by visiting: Ejaculation By Command.
